Congratulations! Your love proposed to you! But, now you’re engaged and have a wedding to plan. Don’t worry, I’ve got a nifty list that will get you through the next phase. Wedding season Is upon you! And it’s going to be ok! Yes, engagement brings excitement. However, you might find the process a little overwhelming along the way. Yup, wedding planning is a process. From deciding who sits where, who eats what, what to wear – there are a lot of things to consider!
Why do you need the You’re Engaged List?
Although this is an exciting time in your life, the reality is wedding planning is complex. You have endless decisions to make, and honestly, that can be overwhelming. That said, you can customize and personalize every aspect of your wedding to make it uniquely yours. In addition, as you’re faced with all the different options that come with planning a wedding – namely choosing a venue, dress, photographer (hi!), videographer, florist, etc., therefore, it’s important to take it one step at a time.
Here’s your quick checklist of essential considerations before diving into planning. I’m here to help make your wedding fun! That’s why my top 5 tips are easy to follow, and a perfect starting point!
You’re Engaged! Here’s what’s next!
- Break the News!
First, whip out the iPhone, and send out your texts. Second, post your news on Instagram (if that’s your thing). Send tweets and shares – you get to celebrate with your loved ones. Ultimately, how you share your news is up to you. - Pick a Date
Secondly, you’ll want to pick your date. Do you want a long or a short engagement? Are there any sentimental dates – a “First Date” that you want to commemorate? Is there an important friend or family that already has commitments on certain dates in the future? Considering these factors early on is going to simplify the planning process. Overall, knowing your wedding date is an important first step to planning your wedding. - Wedding Planner – Yay or Nay?!
First, many brides plan their weddings on their own, with the help of mom, friends & other family members. Alternatively, they hire help – specifically, a wedding planner. In fact, many brides choose to collaborate with a wedding planner who brings their specific vision to life. Moreover, wedding planners are planning experts who guide you through overwhelming details. Consequently, a wedding planner becomes a valuable asset to you on your big day. Why? Because ultimately, wedding planners handle all the details so you can fully enjoy every moment. - Prioritize
Initially, figuring out what you can spend where can be tough. However, knowing your priorities is key to making your big day about what’s truly important to you. Therefore, deciding on the things you really want early in the process will make the planning easier. For example, is there one specific venue that you have always dreamt of? Additionally, what about a photographer whose work you love? Furthermore, is there that one dress you just have to have? As a result, this is where prioritizing can help you budget. - Make the Call
With your budget in place, and your date picked, you’re all set to start making those calls! Start booking your priority vendors and check their availability for your date. Most wedding vendors will need a retainer fee/deposit to book your date. It’s important to confirm your ideal date. But, stay flexible – plan a backup! That said, primarily, don’t forget to do your research – in particular, check online for reviews on their business. Also, ask other wedding vendors that are already on your team – in fact, with all my couples I love extending my knowledge to you and consequently, I always have a list of preferred vendors ready to go to refer to you!
And there you have it!
I hope this has helped you even a little bit. Getting engaged sends you into an exciting emotional whirlwind of activity and it can be hard to get your bearings straight. My hope is this blog post helps focus your hopes, wants & dreams for your wedding day and gives you a starting point.
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